Everyone knows why so few services are available to street
level sex workers in Surrey. The sex workers we meet on a daily or weekly basis
know why so few services are available. It is the whole notion of
enabling. The belief that by offering services to this community, we
are removing their desire to rise above their current social status.
It is the appallingly common belief that these human beings are disposable -
that our community is better off without them.
What many people don't realize is that these are some of the most
integral members of our community. These women and men have so much to
offer but little, if any, opportunity to contribute. The lessons we
learn from the most marginalized members of our communities are the lessons
that work to create better societies. They are the lessons that teach
us to be educated, understanding, socially-conscious human beings.
Make no mistake about it, these men and women are experts the only way
anyone can be an expert - through
experience. If we are to truly achieve safe streets and a strong
legacy for our children, these are the people we need to engage. These
are the people we need to exemplify.
By including and involving the most marginalized members of our communities
(and they ARE members of our communities), we will
not only learn valuable lessons and create sustainable solutions, but in
return for their contributions we will demonstrate our gratitude for their
willingness to educate us. We will show that we value their
contributions in our communities.
What people don't seem to understand is that for anyone to feel empowered
enough to improve the conditions of his or her own life, we need to, as a
society, remove the shame and stigma (and the resulting barriers) that work
to disempower and isolate our most marginalized citizens.
We need to value and validate the experiences of our sisters and brothers on
the street. They are some of the most amazing people on our earth.
How much are we losing as a society by ignoring and marginalizing them?
I shiver to imagine.
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